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Sunday, February 5th, 2017
Yay! What everyone is excited for today, the Annual Puppy Bowl on Animal Planet! OK, maybe not “everyone” but the good thing is the puppies get adopted and no one suffers a head injury or gets accused of sexual assault.
I am attending a Super Bowl party and my husband isn’t too happy about it. He really wants to just stay home and eat nachos and watch the game without interruption but it is thrown by HIS family and HIS friends are attending so he’s gotta do it. I have a great time talking with everyone and eating snacks and drinking some beers and I am looking forward to the half-time show with Lady Gaga, don’t get me wrong I really enjoy football but I would rather watch the playoffs than the actual Super Bowl game and my team isn’t playing so this year I am more concerned about what I am wearing today and how to avoid talking to his family about politics, God help me with this one…
I really like my most current update, BAD QUEEN. I like being naughty and dressing up and putting on a gilded crown, it uh, just sort fits my personality lately. Not that I feel entitled, but I do like being in charge!
If you missed my announcement last week, please do check out my new free tour on my site.
There are tons of trailers and I can’t wait now for the new members’ section coming soon. We were working on the inside but decided to go a different route and worked on the tour and re-doing all 3 sites’ member’s sections. It has taken a lot of time and hard work but it will make being a member to our sites so much more rewarding, can’t wait!
I have been practically standing on my head to get the tour and site finished, handle all of our new productions that are very labor intensive, shoot all my content and keep it fun and current, take care of the business, the houses, the dogs, the husband, and keeping myself sane, oh, it might be too late for that…
Monday, July 20th, 2015
Our new DVD, “Women of the Middle East” is ready for release. Here is a trailer for the movie.
I just did an interview for vice.com and mic.com and we are really getting some mainstream media attention. Just so everyone knows, this isn’t a movie making fun of Allah or the Muslim religion in any way shape or form. I am not trying to incite another Charlie Hebdo incident. It is rather just my way making an entertaining porn movie with a little bit of social commentary on women’s rights. But again, this is porn, this is tantalizing, taboo yes, but for entertainment and sexual satisfaction, not a documentary on the plight of these women.
We start the video off by saying “For a Middle Eastern Woman, veiling is not just a way to suppress her from having sexual freedom. It is a symbol for all of the human rights violations against these women, such as rape and domestic violence. Take the veils off!”
This movie is a message of empowerment for women all over the world who have their sexual freedoms denied in the name of religion, politics or patriarchal traditions.
For the scene with Karmen Bella I imagined a rebel post somewhere in war torn Afghanistan, not quite as extreme or cruel as Isis but an all female Robin Hood type renegade group that are striking back at the civil leaders taking foreign aid money and stuffing their own pockets with it, meanwhile, suppressing women and girls from going to school and all the other human rights atrocities. Karmen grabs one the civil leaders, played by my husband Ryan and hauls him to her camp like a dog. He is submissive at first but then this is porn, and they had to find some common ground inside the tent.
In the scene with Nadia I wanted to show the oppression in a country like Saudi Arabia. Nadia is a doting Saudi wife who follows her husband to America only to find her still shackled to the same rules as at home. So even in the land of freedom she must cover her face in public, cannot drive a car, and must do whatever her husband wishes or expect punishment. I loved the twist at the end of the scene when after he threatens to stone her for taking the car and driving herself, spanks her and then violently makes love to her only to discover at the end that she had snuck away and drove to the dry cleaners to get his clothes for him, the ever loving and devoted and submissive wife.
I personally think the laws in Saudi Arabia are ridiculous. There still is not one single law on the books protecting women. Not from rape, violence, or being killed. Not one! And the amount of domestic violence is absurd. There are many organizations trying to bring the awareness to the public, even a campaign in Saudi Arabia. The campaign ad portrays a face-covered woman with only her eyes showing, one of which is bruised. The translation of the Arabic message of the ad reads: “What is hidden underneath is much bigger.” However, the sentence should refer to what is hidden deep inside the laws of the kingdom and not under the facial covers.
Our third scene with Arabelle Raphael is the embodiment of a beautiful Middle Eastern woman in all her glory so of course, what did we do? We put her in a sexy belly dancing outfit.
Fantasty bellydance scene, gotta have it, plus she is 1/2 Iranian and 1/2 Tunisian. She is the real deal. I just really wanted one scene with a gorgeous woman dancing around and then having sex. Call it a personal fantasy of mine.
The last scene shows something not commonly played out on screen which is prostitution in the Middle East. It is increasingly common for young girls to enter into prostitution in countries such as Jordan and Lebanon mainly due to the fact that are refugees and in great need of money. There is also an increase of prostitution in Iraq after the Iraqui war. The country has been taken back to the stone age so what are these women to do to provide food and shelter for themselves and their loved ones? There has always been prostituion in that region, some of it glamorous like the high end call girls who work in Europe and the Middle East and those forced into it as a means of survival or even human trafficking that occurs but I wanted to show this taboo practice. In a society which is so restricting upon women there is a marketplace for prostitution juxtaposed with having to wear a naqib to the hotel room to service your John. Oh yeah, I also showed her drinking alcohol which is forbidden in the Muslim religion just for the fun of it.
Again, I am in no way making fun of a religion. There are many women who chose to wear the traditional burka or naqib, but for those who are forced to wear them for fear of sexual abuse on the streets or fear of being beaten at home, this was my way of exposing that ludicrous behavior and showing these beautiful women as sexual beings with needs and desires of their own.
Sunday, June 28th, 2015
On a much happier and life inspiring note, my dear friend Kristy published her first edition of her magazine, LEVEL ONE which came out a few weeks ago in Bend, Oregon. I am honored to be a contributing writer. Kristy is an author, blogger, public speaker and radio show host. Her blog, “The Top Ten Rules to Marriage” went viral in 2013, which subsequently landed her very first book deal, and a radio show, which reaches from San Francisco to Dallas, Texas every Thursday evening. She has roughly 100,000 collective social media followers and is one of the most successful relationship bloggers on the web with over 5 million readers in the past 3 years. She is also the creator of Echo Smedia, a social media networking and consulting firm in Bend and has taken her writing skills to the magazine publishing world. She has already begun efforts to produce her magazine around the country. Not to be typecast, but I am a writer for the her sex and relationships section.
I was so happy when she asked me. So the first month is out and so far she tells me I’ve been getting good reviews. IF you care to read my “advice”, here it is:
I always find it an honor and quite frankly, it takes me aback when someone asks me for my advice. Even after 15 years in the “Sex Industry” I still don’t consider myself an expert, well experienced maybe, I’ll give myself that, but I suppose I do have an insight from my own dealings with my husband that I can share with others in case, in some crazy way, my limited knowledge may help them.
So let’s get sexting, I mean started, I mean writing! I was asked a question by a fan who admitted she hasn’t had sex with her husband in over 5 years and to paraphrase, feels that it would now be awkward and seeks advice on how to get their sex life back on track. She wants knowledge on how to make him want her again.
To tackle this is to approach the situation on a much deeper, personal level I have only one question:
1. Are you attracted to you?
Sounds strange to ask it but I feel all sexuality from how you feel to how you come off to others is all about yourself and that private relationship you have with the most important person in your life – yourself. When I “feel fat” or unattractive or tired or lazy the last thing on my mind is “ooh, I want to fuck”. Now let me address the “feel fat” comment. That has nothing to do with being some fairy tale perfect size. That is an over-used term used by skinny people to define their lack of self worth. So I know a lot of truly fat people that love their body and get way more action then I ever did. I’ll continue.
So are you attracted to you? Do you put on your clothes or walk by a mirror and go, “damn I’d hit that”? If you can’t answer that with a simple yes, then it is time to start working on your own self worth and your own sexual relationship with you before hopping into bed with anyone, especially your husband. Other people aren’t supposed to make you feel sexy, you feel sexy and then that sexual energy exudes from within. When that happens, you have to swat ‘em off like flies. So let’s work on getting sexy.
2. Be comfortable in your own skin.
Let’s start with how to feel sexy again naked. I for one can’t ignore my body and not take care of it and then demand of it to work properly in bed. Again, regardless of size, exercising the body really does stabilize the hormones needed for proper sexual arousal and just being in touch with your physical self enables you to connect with another person’s physical self. Do some stretching, take a walk, just get the blood flowing and the hormones working properly. If you are already an avid exerciser, that too could be a detriment to your libido. Yes, actually over exercising can cause your hormones to be out of whack and turn off your sexual desires. A lot of runners experience this so find your balance. And no one thing works for all people. Listen to your body and know what you are capable of. Don’t set your self up for failure and tell yourself that you are going to go to the gym for an hour a day every week if you haven’t worked out in a few years. You will only hate yourself more. And I don’t know anyone that hate fucks themselves.
3. Look the part.
Wear clothes that make you feel sexy. Now if you have gotten into a bad habit of comfort only, STOP IT. You can be sexy and comfortable but just putting that little extra effort into how you look each day, especially around your mate, makes you feel sexier. Grooming is also important, make yourself ready for sex. Shaving, bathing, grooming, it all sets the mood in your subconscious that “hey baby, I’m ready anytime you are”.
4. Get in touch with what turns you on.
Read a sexy novel, watch a sexy movie. Get your mind and soul ready for sex. What you focus on, you create. A great friend taught me that : ) so let’s focus on what you are thinking about. DO NOT approach the situation that he isn’t attracted to you. If you were to be really honest, can you answer my first question yes? So don’t come from this position of less than. Instead, tackle it as “I am responsible for how I feel sexually and for what my sex life has become”. Feeling victimized just prolongs the agony, trust me, I know. I have tried to blame it on my husband in the past and it got me nowhere. I was the one guilty of sending off bad vibes because I wasn’t attracted to myself. So get attracted to yourself. Masturbate, get yourself off, dress a little sexier, walk a little taller, be approachable. And if you have the balls for it, ask for it. Yes, ask your partner for sex. Or better yet, offer a hand job. No real fear of rejection there, most men will take a hand job offer readily. Be ready with some lubricant and just tell him you want to try out something you read on an online magazine. Show him you are ready for a sexual relationship again and consider the hand job a peace offering, a willingness to start that part of your relationship up again, but don’t do this until you are centered with yourself.
If you work on making yourself sexy, in your mind, body and soul then what you will create is a happy person who is ready to share their self with another. That is what is really important. If your husband doesn’t respond to the new and improved sexual you and you are truly honest with yourself that it isn’t coming from your own insecurities then it is time to seek some outside professional help. But do your homework first.
Thursday, November 13th, 2014
11 Nominations for Kelly Madison Media. What an honor and such a pleasant thing to wake up to this beautiful morning. So nice to see so many of our friends nominated as well. Congrats to everyone and again, a sincere thanks and love shout out to Xbiz.
Sunday, August 3rd, 2014
OK, maybe not brag exactly but announce to you the arrival of porn from me to you. Does that send better? I would like to announce a few fun updates on my site if you happened to have missed them in your busy summer season, even with all the fun outdoor distractions, don’t forget to check out all the porn I have made for you with love! So here’s what’s been happening in my world…
Me As the “Boss Lady”, which indeed I am but spoiler alert, I don’t always look like that when working in my office, hence the reason why I don’t have 24 live cams up in my house : O
Me sticking it to myself in “Clear Penetration”.
Me again playing with the hose outside like a little kid, thing was, I didn’t have these big tities to play with when I was young. In fact, a few years ago they weren’t even this big! WTF? Are they ever going to stop growing????
And me playing Big Girl in a Big Big City with a Big Big Big cock ravaging me, uh, can’t see all that action from just this one photo, but go inside kellymadison.com
to see all Big Big Action!
Saturday, April 19th, 2014
Yes, it is an absolute fucking miracle that my sister has officially been declared a NED, which means “no evidence of disease”! That means no cancer. She has gone from inoperable stage IV cancer to being declared free of cancer. I’ve had to take my cynical, scientific, atheistic self and open up to a possibility that there is a power greater than ourselves and whatever it may, works in an oddly mysterious way and that miraculous things can and do occur. Thank you to all those that sent me such kind wishes for her recovery. Who knows, I could find Jesus and quit porn – HA! Let’s not go that far. All my years at private Christian school was more than enough for me and I believe it is more important every day to be kind, honest, loving, good to my fellow man, and to help the poor and the sick and cherish each day as if it were a gift. Hey, I guess I’m not that big a heretic after all…
I have continued to be a busy traveler. I traveled out of state then out of the country then back home then out of state again. I just keep my bags packed at this point. I would like to make you feel sorry for me and say it was all work and no play but alas, I would be found a liar. I did successfully do 7 scenes for my site but I also went out to dinner, went dancing at a club, had loads of room service, and enjoyed more sex than what should legally be allowed.
I’m home now for a while and things are busy as usual here at Kelly Madison Media. We never replaced our programmer but he has agreed to continue to work for us part time which will allow us to FINALLY get my new Member’s section on my site up as well as a new tour and re-vamped insides for pornfidelity and teenfidelity which has all been in the works for almost 2 years. Sadly we lost a dear and valued employee who is off to pursue other endeavors, gave a promotion to another employee and hired someone who is like family to us so we’ll see what our future is going to be like. The energy feels good and even though we have recently taken a few steps back it has allowed Ryan and I to really figure out what we want and who we want to be and do, at least for the time being. Growth is great but making sure your feet are firmly planted in order to let your mind soar is an important step to the process. So right now I’m grounded, literally since I’m not going anywhere soon and I am confident in our business and those who contribute to it. Life is good.
I left a fake tree outside and a little bird thought it to be the perfect hiding place for her 4 little babies and deep inside the electrical light cords and plastic pine needles she has built a very organic little nest! The birds are all fuzzy and ugly and so damn cute. I was just about to wash the tree and put it away when I saw inside the fake tree trunk some twigs and something moving. I was just about to spray it down and heave it into the garage and would have killed them. So they are my little Easter miracle. Will miracles ever cease?
OK, how about some free porn, yeah?
Monday, December 30th, 2013
I’ve made it super easy to vote. Just go to the page that we made which lists all of our categories and has all the links for the individual voting for each category. Taking the time out to vote is so awesome and hard enough to do, I just tried to make it easier for you because I really appreciate you going out of your way and voting for us!
FAN Voting Links for Xbiz and AVN and the List of all Nominations for 2014
Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013
All joking aside, we are so fucking stoked that our company received 26 AVN nominations. Holy cow! We are so grateful to AVN and to our dedicated and talented crew and to our affiliates, our PR company, our associates and friends and everyone who makes it possible for us to be Kelly Madison Media. Last year we got 15 nominations and we were overwhelmed with humility and gratitude. Now with 26 we are beside ourselves. Truly awesome. Truly thankful…
Best Anal Release – Anal Youth, Kelly Madison/Juicy
Best Art Direction – The Madison’s Mad Mad Circus, Kelly Madison/Juicy
Best BDSM Release – Get My Belt, Kelly Madison/Juicy
Best Big Bust Release – Kelly Madison’s World Famous Tits 4, Kelly
Best Boy/Girl Sex Scene – Dark Perversions 2, Kelly Madison/Juicy; Casey
Calvert & Ryan Madison
Best Cinematography – Get My Belt, Kelly Madison/Juicy;Ryan Madison& Matt
Best Director – Non-Feature – Get My Belt, Kelly Madison/Juicy; Kelly
Madison & Ryan Madison
Best DVD Extras – The Madison’s Mad Mad Circus, Kelly Madison/Juicy
Best Editing – Get My Belt, Kelly Madison/Juicy; Ryan Madison
Best Gonzo Release – Real Life, Kelly Madison/Juicy
Best Group Sex Scene – The Madison’s Mad Mad Circus, Kelly Madison/Juicy;
Christy Mack, Kelly Madison, Kendra Lust, Anikka Albrite, Brooklyn Chase,
Jacky Joy, Romi Rain & Ryan Madison
Best Interracial Release – We Vow to Bang Black Beotches 2, Kelly
Best Marketing Campaign – Individual Project – Get My Belt, Kelly
Best MILF Release – Pornfidelity’s Big Titty MILFs 3, Kelly Madison/Juicy
Best MILF Series – Pornfidelity’s Big Titty MILFs, Kelly Madison/Juicy
Best New Series – Dark Perversions, Kelly Madison/Juicy
Best Specialty Release – Other Genre – Deep Creampies 4, Kelly Madison/Juicy
Best Specialty Series – Other Genre – Deep Creampies, Kelly Madison/Juicy
Best Tease Performance – Anal Youth, Kelly Madison/Juicy; Melody Jordan
Best Wall-to-Wall Release – The Madison’s Mad Mad Circus, Kelly Madison/Juicy
Best Young Girl Release – Teen Fidelity 8, Kelly Madison/Juicy
MILF Performer of the Year – Kelly Madison
Most Outrageous Sex Scene – Get My Belt, Kelly Madison/Juicy;Chanel
Preston &Ryan Madison in “Give Me Strength”
Most Outrageous Sex Scene – Get My Belt, Kelly Madison/Juicy; Brooklyn Lee
&Ryan Madison in “Hold Your Breath”
Male Performer of the Year – Ryan Madison
Best Membership Website – PornFidelity.com
Friday, November 22nd, 2013
Wow, both Ryan and I got nominated! It’s been an even greater than usual few days for Ryan and myself who earned a cart-full of nominations for the 2014 XBIZ Awards and the 2014 AVN Awards fan voting categories. We are so super excited, Ryan is beyond thrilled, don’t judge him by that photo, that’s his “serious” face. Ha!
The AVN Awards fan voting categories were announced on Friday and we received several great noms. Ryan is up for Favorite Male Porn Star, I’m up for Hottest MILF and Best Boobs, and we even scored a nom for Best Studio!
Please click here and vote once daily. Let’s see if this little Mom and Pop Porn business can win some awards with your help.
Love you guys and thanks for all the love and support. I know I say it a lot but I MEAN it a lot!!!!! Woo hoo!
P.S. I needed some good news and some great shit to be happy about, sis is doing better but it is so rough. I just got back Monday and I have to leave again next week.
Thursday, October 24th, 2013
Hello Everyone, reporting in live from Las Vegas where I have transformed into my alter ego, Nurse Kelly for reals this time. Usually this time of year I am dressing up as Nurse Kelly and having my way with the good Dr. but alas I am my sister’s nurse instead. She went in for removal of her uterine cancer last Wednesday and I have been by her side ever since. I will be staying with her until this coming Monday. Her surgery went well but her recovery was slow at first but now she is walking and doing great. We find out today what her chemo schedule will look like. Fingers crossed it won’t be too severe and she should be on her way to a happy healthy life!
I am happy to say I updated my site last week with a “Breast Appreciation” episode. Number 8 went up last Friday and to my surprise, it was almost 3 years since my last one! I would have bet you a million bucks I did some last year but no, it has been way too long. I am definitely bringing back those kind of shoots for 2014 which is just around the corner. Really, where the hell has this year gone? 2013 only has a few months left to it. How can that be? It was just 4th of July last week, I swear. Above is a sample of the “Appreciciation #8” video/photo shoot and below is a photo from “Miami Bitch” the week prior. Both are slow and sensual breast accentuating videos involving lotion and toys and slow motion action. These were made for my breast lovers out there. It can’t be all about the cock worship ALL the time…
I have been so wonderfully blessed by this industry lately. I got to present at the Sex Awards as I mentioned in my prior postings and I was blessed that I along with my company had several nominations. I really enjoyed myself that night. I was able to see the girls in the industry that I just adore like Bonnie Rotten and Alexis Texas and Allison Moore who I presented with and Sandee Westgate and her sexy man Jared. I was with my “crew” that night and Brandi Love was my hot date and it was a long needed wonderful girls night out. I started off in a long Halston navy dress for the presenting and then afterwards I changed into a little gold dress and thank god I did because everyone was stepping on my long dress and I just couldn’t take it any longer. Plus it was more fun to move around in and get nasty.
We stayed at the Roosevelt and stayed up way past our bedtimes that evening, poor Brandi never did get any sleep and she was out the door by 4:00AM and on a plane for Florida to attend the Nightmoves show. Surprisingly, I won for “Best Boobs” at that Nightmoves awards show, I should have gotten on the plane with Brandi to accept it in person. Next time! Thank you to AVN and X3sixty for allowing me to be a part of the Sex Awards and thank you so much Nightmoves and all that voted for me granting me my big win. Woo hoo!
Photo I sent to Ryan the other night from inside my sister’s bathroom.
I like sexting my husband.